3 Reasons Why I don’t Share My Feelings Anymore.
As a young chap who is always curious to find out new ideas and new tips, I always encounter something unpleasant in the process. A few months ago, I was in a mood where I would put up at least twenty statuses on love, emotions, and sadness daily. I love to post sad statuses on breakups, best friend betrayal, and what more? It was my habit of fetching any sad memes, quotes, and topics about heartbroken, love, loyalty, etc which I came across on the internet. I was enjoying the process. I want to act as if I was broken down deep inside my heart. I want to show off that I was shattered.
In doing so, after some phase, realized that something went wrong with me. Some unwanted stuff got into my subconscious mind already. All those thousands of sad statuses, quotes, videos, and memes that I read on the internet have already colonized my subconscious mind. Things started to get worse. I became weak emotionally. I tried to share with my best friend and the closest one of my friend’s circle. It even made me worse.
I slowly recovered back. It took months for me to reach the level where I am independent. In those processes, I learn something which I decided to share with you. Here are three reasons why I don’t share my feelings with anyone not even with my best friends.
1. Nobody Cares.
Stop sharing with others; they don’t care about you.
Does anybody think about people truly caring for you? No, they don’t. Time reveals what people are and what mindset they have. I never noticed the dark side of my friends until I got closer and they fell flat to hide anymore. I discovered in life, no one cares about you. They might only when you are in such a position to help them back. Otherwise, you are just trash for them.
People only get closer to you only when they see something beneficial in you. Once they find you that you are not in a position to benefit them, they’ll not value you. This is one of the worst personalities I hate the most. People never give unconditional love. Everything is conditional. If you don’t value they don’t value you. It’s like -- Pay Respect and take respect.
2. You Get Weaker.
Sharing emotions with others will only make you emotionally weak; it’s highly disastrous in the future.
One of the reasons I stop sharing with friends is I became dependent on them. I stop sharing and started to figure it out by myself. Now I am no more dependent on others. That is how I got stronger emotionally. The last time I cried over stupid things was two months ago. Now I laugh at myself, for being gullible. How could I be such a ridiculous chap at that period?
At present, I rarely share my thoughts with my best friends. Forget about sharing feelings, I don’t even suppose that. I am completely changing. And I love what I am doing. That’s the process to face the world. If you want to survive on your own feet, it’s time that you begin from today and practice being self-sufficient. Don’t depend on friends or anyone. Nobody is going to walk with you on your life journey.
3. They’ll Backstab You.
Don’t share your secrets. Keep it up to you. If you do, you are giving them the key to your lock.
Backstab or betrayal is common among friends. And I faced it practically. Be careful whom you choose as a friend. You have to be extremely careful while choosing your closest friends, especially your so-called best friends. Don’t share your secrets. Keep it up to yourself. Today’s friend may be your tomorrow’s greatest enemy. Nobody knows what our future holds. There be on high alert. Always think before you decide wisely and carefully.
Ninety-Five percent of your friends will not be happy with your excellent achievement. Instead, they’ll get jealous. Otherwise given chance they’ll backstab you and knock you down. The only person whom you can trust well is you. Don’t trust easily, don’t be fooled easily. Watch out and guard yourself. I don’t want to write more. I think I’ll end it here. I just want to repeat once more--
Today’s friend might be tomorrow’s greatest enemy.